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Reed and I met on November 29, 2015. I came into treatment terrified, lost, and confused. She was 19 and I was 18. Her vulnerability and kindness helped me open up immediately. We got to share a room for a short time and she was the first person I opened up to. She made me feel brave because she was. She wanted recovery, life, and to inspire others. She gave it her 100%. When we celebrated 6 months clean, her and I drove back to our treatment center and shared our stories with the girls there. She was there for me when i suffered a personal setback and had a hard decision to make. She supported me unwaveringly and offered me, very matter of factly, that if I needed support in anyway, she had my back. I will absolutely never forget that. She pushed me to hold my head high. Reed had class and grace. I’m grateful to have met her. To have enjoyed her smile, her company. I will miss her, i will hold her in the highest regard. I want her family to know the impact she had on those battling addiction. She changed lives. The picture I’m positing here is at Afton State Park. We randomly took a day trip there for an adventure. To me, it perfectly captures her spirit. Always down for an adventure, always beautiful and camera ready.
I was so fortunate to know Reed. I will always remember how sweet she was when we were together, and that dazzling smile of hers. Reed was a very beautiful person with big dreams and plans to do good in the world. I will remember her by doing good deeds in her honour. May she Rest In Peace knowing she has touched so many lives in a profound and meaningful way. My deepest condolences to all who knew and loved Reed.
When I contemplate the impact Reed McGregor had on me in the time I knew her, there are many descriptors I could use: unwaveringly caring, deeply empathetic, honest, and loving. Very seldom in my life did I feel I could speak extemporaneously and freely about my feelings or experiences and be met with empathy and objectivity. Reed was a person gifted with the natural inclination to not simply hear, but to actively and intently listen to others. Her presence during some of the darkest moments of my life were calming, like shelter. Particularly during these times, a period where I felt isolated and misunderstood, Reed would listen without judgment. That simple but powerful gesture still resonates with me today; people often need little more than to express themselves freely to others without fear of judgment. In a sense, the quiet strength and fight Reed exuded set an example for me to own my personal struggles and face them down. For that I will always have gratitude. In the good times, of which there were many, Reed contributed endless positivity and energy. Treasured moments like closing down the bar in downtown Toronto, where Alex, Reed and I barely drank anything because the conversation was captivating. Rather than dwelling on what was or what could have been, I will hold on to the plentiful moments of happiness and positivity and celebrate them endlessly. I urge anyone who knew Reed to do the same. Grief is a normal and inevitable process, but as Alex, one of Reed’s dearest friends and my wife-to-be always says, ‘I know Reed would want us to be happy, to remember the good, and move forward’. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Reed, it pains me to accept that you are no longer here with us, but I take solace — as we all must — in the belief that our love for you can be felt across the void that impermanently separates us. While I was only bestowed the honor of your friendship for five years in this life, your impact on me will remain for the balance of time I have left on this Earth. I will personally seek to honor you in the ways I can, however large or small, whether it be by working to help others more often, or to use my voice to start a dialogue about important topics; your willingness and conviction to stand up for what is ‘right’ will live on. It is in times like these that we become acutely aware that life is not permanent, but love is eternal. We will, together, celebrate all of the love you gave during your life. -Forrest
Most of our memories were made on FaceTime, but distance couldn’t hold us down
Reed was such an amazing person and friend. I feel so fortunate to have had her in my life. Though we knew each other at Glenview, our mutual friend Alexis brought us closer. There was never a shortage of laughter and fun when we were all together. After losing my dad 9 years ago I felt very alone in my loss as not many others my age could understand the pain of losing a parent. Talking to Reed about our dads was so special to me as she was so honest and open about her experience, it made me feel like I could be as well. My heart breaks for her family and close friends, she was loved so much. Miss you Reed and give our dads a hug for me
Reed was one of my best friends in the world. She meant everything to me. When we were both going through a hard time in June 2018, Reed came to DC to spend time with Forrest and I. We went to the Blind Whino (which she loved). It was an old church turned into a colorful venue. The day we went it was early in the day and there was a DJ and free food. The three of us spent hours dancing and having so much fun. She was such an amazing guest and we were both heartbroken when she had to go back home. This is one of the very very amazing memories with Reed that I will cherish forever. I love you forever Reed.
Milica Radovanovic
Milica Radovanovic
I met Reed in 2017, and though I only knew her for a short time she made a big impact on my life. I have a hard time making friends, but with Reed it wasn’t hard at all. The moment we met it felt natural, she was so open and accepted me as I was. When i asked her to come to my bridal shower, she was more than willing (even excited) even though she didn’t know any of us. She made friends with my friends and even my fob family. She could literally connect with anyone and everyone. We all loved her and thought the best of her, and still do. I remember posting a photo with her on instagram and she was so happy when she saw “so gassed”. Next thing you know she was driving to Wasaga in her convertible ready to party for my bachelorette party. From random uno nights, birthdays and gatherings to eating pizza on my wedding night, Reed was apart of a lot of important moments in my life. I will always be grateful for these memories. About a week before Reed died i was organizing and i stumbled upon some jewellery Reed had made me and gifted me on my wedding day. Even though i was decluttering, these gifts brought me joy, i just had to keep them. I wish i had messaged her then, but i didn’t. I wish that i tried harder, i wish that i was there for her more. She deserved better. Reed will always be a reminder to me, an example, of what it means to be truly good. I will always remember her genuine and kind soul ❤️ until we meet again. RIP Reed
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